INT 175 - How I Handled my Friend Being Interrupted

You and your friend are in the middle of having a great conversation. Out of nowhere, someone asks you a million questions right when your friend is about to respond to you.

What’s the best way for you to handle this interruption?

Listen to this episode of the Int-HER-rupt podcast. Host Linda Yates shares her story of a situation similar to this. Through this real-life scenario, she offers valuable insights and practical tips on handling interruptions in various settings.

Tune into this episode and unlock the potential to transform difficult conversations into opportunities for growth and empowerment.

Real-Life Experience

• Linda recounts an incident at a conference where she and her friend were conversing, only to be interrupted twice by a gentleman. Feeling irritated, Linda boldly confronted the interrupter, expressing her displeasure at his behavior. 

• Her decision to speak up stemmed from her strong awareness of the impact of interruptions, a topic she regularly engages with on the show.

Apology and Reflection

• After the incident, Linda experienced conflicting emotions and decided to extend an apology to the interrupter to ensure the relationship was not adversely affected. 

• This segment explores the complexities of navigating social interactions, highlighting the importance of considering one's intentions, impact, and the desired outcome in such situations.

Tips for Handling Interruptions

• From her extensive experience, Linda shares practical tips for effectively managing interruptions professionally and personally. 

• Emphasizing the significance of maintaining composure and striving for collaboration rather than combativeness, she offers guidance on using assertive communication strategies and body language to address interruptions confidently.

The Power of Assertion

• Linda highlights the key strategies that individuals can employ when faced with interruptions, including making eye contact, using "I" statements, and pausing and gathering composure. 

• She stresses the value of using assertive language and tone while avoiding apologetic or submissive expressions.

Assertive Communication Techniques

• Linda delves into specific communication techniques, such as adjusting speaking volume and utilizing authoritative vocal tones to address interruptions effectively. 

• She also presents a valuable perspective on the significance of replacing adversarial language patterns with more inclusive and affirming phrasing for impactful communication.

Through Linda’s real-life experience, you’ll learn practical tips for navigating interruptions in the workplace and life. Her advice will equip you with the tools to maintain composure, assert yourself effectively, and uphold collaborative communication in the face of interruptions. Tune in now and embark on a journey of growth, empowerment, and insightful conversations. 

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"I just want to remind you, because I know this, that you have strengths waiting to uncover possibilities, to realize so that you can accomplish your goals and dreams." - Linda Yates.

Resources

Linda Yates Coaching & Consulting Facebook Group

YouTube Channel 

If this episode connected with you, reach out to Linda and let her know. This podcast is produced by TSE Studios. Check out other podcasts by TSE Studios, including this episode’s sponsor, The Sales Evangelist, helping new and struggling sellers close more deals and achieve their sales goals. Subscribe to the IntHERrupt Podcast so you won’t miss a single show. Find us on Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Spotify, and Stitcher. Audio created by Ryan Rasmussen Productions.